
Tired of swiping? Amsterdam has plenty of exciting, real-world ways to meet new people, whether you’re looking for love, friends, or flirty vibes. From quirky singles nights to casual meetups and niche events, the city’s social scene is full of fun ways to connect. Here’s your go-to guide to mixing, mingling, and making the most of being single in Amsterdam.
Unattached Events
Unattached Events offers a refreshing alternative to dating apps by bringing singles together at fun, in-person gatherings across Amsterdam. With a focus on relaxed, organic connection, these events create a welcoming space where you can meet like-minded people without the pressure of swiping or small talk fatigue. Whether you come solo or with friends, it’s all about real conversations and building genuine connections.
Tantra Speed Date®
This isn’t your average speed dating night. Tantra Speed Date® uses guided exercises and mindfulness-based connection games to spark something real, minus the awkward small talk. Designed for singles 45+, the event blends fun with deeper connection, helping you meet up to 20 people in one night. With a 94% match rate, the odds are very much in your favor.
📆 Next event : Friday, July 11 2025, secure your ticket here.
Thursday Dating
Forget the apps! Thursday is bringing dating back to real life with fun, curated singles events across Amsterdam every week. Whether it’s rooftop parties, wine tastings or cheeky blind dating shows, Thursday events are all about authentic vibes and spontaneous chemistry. Join the world’s biggest IRL singles movement and make Thursday your new favorite night of the week.
📆 Weekly IRL events
Thursday Live Blind Dating Show
Step into the spotlight at Thursday’s Live Blind Dating Show at Kanteen25, where the audience plays Cupid and sparks fly on stage. It’s part comedy, part chaos, and all about real-life chemistry—with plenty of laughs and flirting off-stage too. Come solo, come curious, and leave with a story (or someone’s number).
📍 Location: Kanteen25, Kattenburgerstraat 5, Building 025, 1018 JA Amsterdam
📆 Date: July 4th 2025, get your ticket here.
Expat Speed dating
Looking to connect with like-minded internationals? Expat Speed Dating brings together expats and locals in Amsterdam for fun, fast-paced evenings designed to spark friendships and romance across cultures. With age-specific events and a relaxed, friendly vibe, it’s the perfect way to meet fellow professionals navigating life—and love—abroad.