Tired of swiping? Amsterdam has plenty of exciting, “real-life” ways to meet new people, whether you’re looking for love, friendship, or a fling. From quirky singles nights to casual meetups and niche events, the city’s social scene is full of fun ways to connect. Here’s your ultimate guide to mingling, socializing, and making the most of being single in Amsterdam.
Unattached Events
Unattached Events offers a refreshing alternative to dating apps by bringing singles together at fun, in-person gatherings throughout Amsterdam. With a focus on relaxed, organic connection, these events create a welcoming space where you can meet like-minded people without the pressure of swiping or exhausting small talk. Whether you come alone or with friends, it’s all about real conversations and building genuine connections.
Tantra Speed Date®
This is no ordinary speed dating night. Tantra Speed Date® uses guided exercises and mindfulness-based connection games to foster genuine connections, without the awkward small talk. Designed for singles aged 45+, this event combines fun with deeper connection, allowing you to meet up to 20 people in a single evening. With a 94% match rate, the odds are very much in your favor. 📆 Next event: Friday, July 11, 2025—book your ticket here.
Thursday Dating
Forget the apps! Thursday brings dating back to real life with fun, curated singles events throughout Amsterdam, every week. Whether it’s rooftop parties, wine tastings, or cheeky blind date shows: Thursday’s events are all about authentic vibes and spontaneous chemistry. Join the world’s largest IRL singles movement and make Thursday your new favorite night of the week. 📆 Weekly IRL events
Thursday Live Blind Dating Show
Step into the spotlight at Thursday’s Live Blind Dating Show at Kanteen25, where the audience plays Cupid and sparks fly on stage. It’s part comedy, part chaos, and all about real-life chemistry—with plenty of room to flirt offstage too. Come alone, come curious, and leave with a story (or someone’s number). 📍 Location: Kanteen25, Kattenburgerstraat 5, Building 025, 1018 JA Amsterdam 📆 Date: July 4, 2025, buy your ticket here.
Expat Speed Dating
Want to connect with like-minded internationals? Expat Speed Dating brings expats and locals in Amsterdam together for fun, fast-paced evenings designed to spark friendships and romance across cultures. With age-specific events and a relaxed, friendly atmosphere, this is the perfect way to meet fellow professionals who are also finding their way in life—and love—abroad.
